15 Self-Care Gift Ideas For Your Stressed-Out Loved One

15 Self-Care Gift Ideas For Your Stressed-Out Loved One
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If there’s someone in your life who’s constantly super stressed out (You know you can think of at least one person—even if it’s yourself.) and you’re hoping to give them a little pick-me-up, you’ve come to the right place. Believe me, anyone who surrounds themselves with celebrity news knows something about stress. (Have you seen our coverage of Cardi B’s drama? Or the never-ending feuds between Hailey Bieber and Selena Gomez?). So, yeah, I’d say we have a pretty firm grasp on how to handle stress and, subsequently, what self-care gifts would be best for that one particularly tense person in your life.

After all, no matter how perfect someone’s life on Instagram looks, everyone has a rough day now and again. Maybe your best friend is a badass who’s always having to work late on projects—and all they really want is a night alone with a fancy candle and a glass of wine. Or perhaps there’s someone in your life who keeps hitting one obstacle after another, and you’re looking for a way to make their day just a little bit brighter. Self-care gifts can be more meaningful than you might think—and the difference between a friend or family member having a tough day or a relaxing one.

Sure, you could gift your loved ones a trip to the spa or a nice massage, but if you’re looking for something that they could use time and time again, then we’ve got you covered. Sometimes taking a moment for ourselves can be difficult, and a friend pushing you toward a little self care makes all the difference. Just by giving someone a self-care gift, you’re showing them that you care about them (and their wellbeing). The little things in life add up, so go ahead and treat your loved ones to something that will brighten their day.

From aromatherapy tools to oracle decks to enlightening books about mindfulness, scroll through for our picks of top-shelf self-care gifts you can give to that special someone—or just yourself.

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1. The Moon Deck Oracle

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Courtesy of The Moon Deck.

This is the perfect gift for anyone in need of trusting their own intuition more. The Moon Deck Oracle cards will help them listen to their inner self and pull wisdom from within. And the best part is you don’t have to be an experienced reader to read these oracle cards. It comes with a handy booklet with explanations for each card.


2. Five Minute Journal

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Courtesy of Intelligent Change Inc.

Gratitude can go along way, and the best-selling Five Minute Journal can do wonders for the heart and mind. Encourage your loved one to actually use it daily—and then see if it’s made a difference after a few weeks!


3. Flawless Vibrating Facial Roller

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Courtesy of Finishing Touch.

Up your BFF’s face mask sessions with the Finishing Touch Flawless Vibrating Facial Roller. Also, might I add how super Instagram-able it is? You’re welcome!



4. No Mud, No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering

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Courtesy of Parallax Press.

Not only has Buddhist monk and peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh been honored with the 2019 Luxembourg Peace Prize for Outstanding Inner Peace, he was also nominated by the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. for the Nobel Peace Prize in 1967 (NBD). So it’s safe to say that this spiritual teacher knows what he’s talking about. No Mud, No Lotus is perfect for anyone facing adversity and looking to better their situation—whatever it may be.


5. Slip Silk King Pillowcase

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Courtesy of Slip.

A good night’s sleep and a good hair day are some of the best gifts you can give someone—and the benefits of a Slip Silk Pillowcase are unmatched. I like this pretty pink option, but there are several other colors from which you can choose.


6. “Calm the F*ck Down” Coloring Book

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Courtesy of CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform.

Calm the F down with this fun coloring book made for adults. Perfect for de-stressing after a long day when a glass of wine isn’t quite doing the trick. And for under $5, it’s a great little gift.


7. Unicorn Cloud Slime

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Courtesy of EASYCITY.

Listen. There’s a reason why slime videos have been so popular this year. Now your loved one can go all ASMR IRL with this Unicorn Cloud Slime—which is, perhaps, the greatest gift of them all.


8. Mystic Mondays Tarot: A Deck for the Modern Mystic

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Courtesy of Chronicle Books.

A beautiful deck that’s perfect for anyone looking to explore their spiritual side, this Mystic Mondays Tarot makes a great option for a stressed out loved one—or yourself!


9. Huggable Sloth Cooling + Heating Pad

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Courtesy of Urban Outfitters.

This Sloth Cooling and Heating Pad is so cute, you’ll actually want to snuggle it. It’s a great option for that friend who always has a sore muscle—or just loves a good cuddle sesh.


10. Pumpkin Chai Candle

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Courtesy of NEST Fragrances.

No matter the season, the smell of a Pumpkin Chai Candle can be instantly soothing. Even in the middle of summer, this scent will take your loved one back to simpler days of pumpkin patches and cozy sweaters. NEST Fragrances has plenty of other scents, too, in case pumpkin chai isn’t your favorite.


11. Personal Power Pocket Crystals

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Courtesy of Kitsch.

Whether your or your loved one believes in the healing power of crystals or not, they make a surprisingly good (and pretty!) gift. These Kitsch Personal Power Pocket Crystals would look great sitting on any dresser.


12. Peace Is Every Step

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Courtesy of Bantam Publishing.

Time and time again, mindfulness has proven itself to be a great healer. Here’s a book on how to practice mindfulness from the great zen teacher himself, Thich Nhat Hanh.


13. Woodgrain Oil Diffuser

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Courtesy of Project 62.

There’s just something about an oil diffuser that’s instantly soothing. Give your favorite loved ones the gift of essential oils filling their home and watch as the stress melts away.


14. Stay Rad Planner

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Courtesy of Happy Planner.

This Happy Planner option is a great gift for someone who’s constantly on the go—and just needs a little bit of organization to help them get through it all without stress.


15. Cactus Flower + Matcha Candle

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Courtesy of Paddywax.

There’s nothing quite so soothing as a candle that smells good and looks good. This Cactus Flower + Matcha Candle from Paddywax is as much a home decor item as it is a de-stressor.

A version of this article was originally published on November 26, 2019.

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