There’s nothing quite like watching your favorite TV couple finally get together after seasons of wondering “will they, won’t they?”. From Ross and Rachel’s famous kiss in the coffee shop to Big and Carrie’s happily ever after in Paris, love on TV always feels a little more magical than it does in reality. Even TV’s more toxic couples usually get at least one swelling-of-the-violins moment. In the real world, though, dating is usually more of a slow grind—a series of half-hearted swipes, lackluster flings and, of course, a ghost or two. But that doesn’t mean we can’t dream.
If you’re craving something new from your dating life, why not take inspiration from your favorite show? Whether you want to recreate the magic of your favorite show’s power couple, or you simply want to relish in the show’s immaculate vibes, we’ve got you covered with 20 first date ideas inspired by our favorite TV shows. We can’t promise all of these dates will be good, but at least they’ll be memorable.
A cozy coffee shop date
Looking to find the Chandler to your Monica or the Ross to your Rachel? Invite your date to your favorite local coffee shop—preferably one with a laid-back vibe, extra large mugs and a comfy sofa you can sink into for a few hours. Oh, and maybe even a live folk singer for a little (slightly uncomfortable) ambience.
A boozy brunch
The fabulous foursome were always on the go, visiting lively Manhattan restaurants, night club press launches, or spending weekends out in the Hamptons. Whether you’re a Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, or a Charlotte, the only first date choice for a Sex and the City fan is an indulgent weekend brunch—complete with a Cosmo or two, of course.
An outdoor weekday lunch on the go
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For the girls of Constance Billard, there was no power play more iconic than eating lunch on the steps of The Met. Invite your date to a quick weekday lunch date outside of an iconic location in your city. It will be the perfect opportunity to find out if your date can really keep up with your fast-paced life. Xoxo.
A wholesome picnic
Channel your inner twee for this slightly dorky, but nonetheless super fun first date. Grab your picnic blanket, throw on a flouncy sundress and pack a lunch—including some homemade baked goods if you’re up to it. Spend the afternoon soaking up the sun, telling stories, playing games and maybe even strumming on your ukulele.
Lunch at a small town diner followed by a shopping trip
For a quaint Schitt’s Creek-inspired first date, make your way out of the city and into the sticks—the smaller and hokier the town, the better. Spend the day living like the locals. Eat lunch at the local diner, then potter around the local shops. Who knows? You might even come across a few hidden gems.
Lunch at an old-school family deli
Head to that old deli—you know, the one where the staff are a little rude, the metal tables and linoleum floors are a little dirty and the menus are a little stained. Then, order some kind of sandwich, fries and pickle combination. It may be simple and rough around the edges, but for someone as straight-talking and robust as you, it’s the perfect spot to really break the ice.
Breakfast at a simple corner diner
While Mrs. Maisel fans might head to the deli for lunch, Seinfeld fans should get to their local diner in time for breakfast. Nurse a simple filter coffee, enjoy a rather basic breakfast fry-up and crack a few jokes while you and your date get to know each other, flaws and all.
Cocktails at a hotel bar
Darren Starr’s Younger saw a 40-something mom rediscover a sense of youthful adventure when she posed as a 26-year-old publishing assistant. There’s no better way to emulate Liza’s glamorous life as an up-and-comer than at a hotel bar. Whether you’re team Josh or team Charles, remember, age is just a number. You’re never too young (or too old) for a chic martini.
A visit to a fall market
To embrace the cozy, perpetual autumnal vibes of Gilmore Girls, head to a nearby town’s fall market. Stroll among the stalls of vegetables and craftware with a pumpkin spice latte in hand. Stop to listen to the folk singer on the corner and finish the day with a large lunch (and at least one more coffee) at the local cafe.
A home-cooked meal
Keep things domestic with a quiet home-cooked dinner followed by a Netflix binge. Of course, don’t be afraid to ditch a few of the most outdated 1950s sitcom stereotypes, just like WandaVision.
A patio lunch while on holiday
Most of us probably can’t afford to jet off for an exotic resort holiday on a whim for a first date. Nevertheless, it’s easy to channel the opulence and mystique of The White Lotus. Grab your most dramatic sun hat, sunglasses and maxi dress, then head out to a local patio—ideally one with a view. Indulge in a bottle of wine and light snacks.
Lunch in the financial district of the city
Spend an afternoon having a working lunch amidst the suits and skyscrapers of the financial district. Pick an extravagant restaurant, but try not to take much notice of your surroundings. After all, you’ve got business to attend to.
A simple walk
You is another show that doesn’t exactly scream romance. Still, if you want to add a dash of mystery to your first date, head out for a walk around your local neighborhood and don’t forget your baseball cap.
A night out clubbing
Dance the night away, and be sure to wear your most extravagant going-out look, facial glitter included.
A scary-meets-camp movie night
In Wednesday, Tyler set up the perfectly horrifying date night for Wednesday, complete with her least favorite movie. He may not have been the ideal guy, but the date was the perfect personal gesture. While we don’t recommend watching a movie you actually hate, try picking a suitably scary movie with a Wednesday-esque, camp flare to get you and your date in the spooky mood.
A dignified promenade in the park
Borrow inspiration from the Regency-era romance show by taking your date on a stately stroll around your local park—especially if the park has a stream or a well-tended garden. Keep the conversation light and polite, but don’t be too afraid to let things get romantic. After all, luckily, the days of chaperones are long gone.
A visit to a haunted house
Pretty Little Liars was nothing if not creepy. In honor of the show’s iconic haunted house episode, take your date to a theme park haunted house. Not only will the spooky date be a little more thrilling than the usual dinner and a movie, it might even bring you closer together.
A game day date
Bond over how much you both believe in your team by taking your date to a football, soccer, or basketball game. Get into the sporty spirit by dressing up and cheering on your team together. Remember, even if your team doesn’t win, keep up a Ted-inspired positive attitude.
A shopping spree at the mall
Inspired by Eleven and Max, head to the local mall for a cute shopping spree. Remember, this isn’t a serious shopping spree, it’s all about fun. Try on funny outfits, indulge in your favorite fast food and play games at the arcade. This date will be the perfect throwback to both of your childhoods, so there’s no better way to break the ice.
Attend an a capella show or musical
Get your Glee on with a cheesy a capella show. Sure, it might be a little lame to some, but for Glee fans, a corny pop concert or a good old-fashioned musical will be a great opportunity to see if your date is just as enthusiastic as you.