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Distance may make the heart grow fonder — but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Frankly, relationships are challenging in general, but if you and your S.O. are in an LDR, it can be even more difficult to express your love and keep your bond intact. With Valentine’s Day quickly approaching, the quest for finding the perfect gifts for long-distance couples is all the more pressing. Sure, you could opt for mailing your boo a standard box of chocolates and a sweet love letter, but why not opt for a more unique gift that will actually strengthen your bond — whether through a dash of humor courtesy of a “girlfriend” pillow or a sex toy that allows you to get intimate with your partner even when you’re restricted to remote love-making?
Whether you’ve moved away from your loved one to embark on a new career journey, or decided to take on a graduate degree at an out-of-state University, long-distance love may not be an easy feat, but keeping the romance alive from a distance is far from impossible (pun intended). One of my ex-boyfriends and I lived about three hours apart during the entirety of our three-year partnership, and while the 150 miles away from one another was frankly nothing compared to distances apart that some of my friends have endured with their boyfriends and girlfriends, it was still a bit of a struggle to make things work — especially when it came to holidays, anniversaries, and of course, Valentine’s Day.
While seeing your main squeeze IRL for the holiday of romance is obviously the ideal scenario, it’s not always a feasible option when you’re on opposite ends of the country. However, sending thoughtful gifts is a bona fide “love language,” and the gesture will show your partner how much they mean to you — even if you can’t be together to celebrate your love for one another. We’ve rounded up a few gift ideas for LDR couples that will show them you care, and be a useful ally in keeping the passion alive and palpable, whether it’s V-Day or not.
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Portal From Facebook 10-Inch Video Calling Device
If you’re looking to upgrade your virtual communication with a long distance S.O., investing in Portal’s advanced Video Calling Device will make all of the difference. Portal’s devices allow you to “feel there when you can’t be there,” and are equipped with a smart camera that automatically adjusts to your movement, so you don’t have to stay seated on the couch while you’re chatting. Best of all, Portal is offering a slew of Valentine’s Day promotions right now through February 15, including $50 off Portal Plus products, $30 off Portal From Facebook, and $20 off Portal TV From Facebook.
Oculus Quest 2
Perfect for gamers and long-distance couples alike, this advanced VR headset allows you and your partner (or your friends) to join in on certain multiplayer games from afar. From ultra-clear graphics to redesigned control functionality, the Quest 2 is enhanced with upgraded features to take your gaming experience to the next level.
Aura Carver Luxe Frame
Curate and upload your fave couples photos to Aura’s Carver Luxe digital picture frame . All you have to do is connect the frame to Wi-Fi and get the Aura app. Soon, they’ll be receiving warm reminders of the precious memories you share together.
Goldbelly Gourmet Meal
You might not be able to go to an in-person candlelit dinner, but you can feast at home thanks to Goldbelly’s wide variety of gourmet meals. Order one to your home and another to your partner’s home and you’re ready to enjoy a romantic dinner together. This one is a Lobster Care Package for Two from McLoons Lobster Shack. It comes with a lobster roll kit, a heart-shaped blueberry bread pudding and a cup of clam chowder. Check out Goldbelly’s other Valentine’s Day offerings to find the perfect meal for you and your S.O.
HBO Max Subscription
Instead of going to the movies together, bring the movies to your respective homes. Cave in and get an HBO Max subscription so that you two can share an account and binge-watch Valentine’s Day romcoms together.
Letters to Open When…
This genius love letter book allows you to send notes and words of encouragement before splitting, allowing your partner to open a surprise message when they’re feeling down or need a bit of a pep talk when you’re not around.
We-Vibe Sync Vibrator
When your S.O. lives miles and miles away, keeping intimacy alive is well, kind of impossible. We-Vibe’s sync-enabled vibrators, however, are honestly the next best thing to the real deal. Basically, you buy the toy and download their app, Touch, on your smartphone, and you’re able to get off and get it on with your partner — even when you’re apart. It’s seriously a game-changer for long-distance lovers.
Girlfriend Body Pillow
So this may not exactly be the most practical of choices, but if your boo has a sense of humor he/she will love it. As a side note, I had the “Boyfriend” version at my desk for over a year before my real-life BF and I started dating, and it definitely kept me warm and cozy on the days when my office was cold AF. Don’t worry, a pillow will never replace you.
Long Distance Touch Bracelet Set
Communicating via text, Skype, or even Google Hangout is critical when you’re not near your partner, but not even the most advanced technology can replace physical touch. Fortunately, these next-level bracelets simulate the feel of being touched by your love—even when you’re oceans away. Powered by a corresponding app, these bracelets vibrate and light up when one partner touches it, allowing you to signal to your partner that you’re thinking of them.
Brooklyn Bedding Dual Therapy Weighted Blanket
If you can’t cuddle with your honey IRL, trust me, weighted (alternatively dubbed “anxiety blankets”) are the best alternative to get you through your solitude. I may not be in an LDR, but I definitely have anxiety and trouble falling asleep on the reg, and this 15-pound (you can also opt for the 20-pound) weighted blanket makes me feel like I’m being hugged from every angle. I literally cannot sleep without it.
“The Astrology of Love & Sex”
I’m not going to lie: every time I start seeing someone new, I instantly start googling my potential future BF and I’s relationship prognosis based on the Zodiac. This in-depth book gives you a detailed account of not only love but also sexual compatibility . It’s a really great gift that feels like a fresh alternative to the standard Kama Sutra.
Long Distance Friendship Lamp Set
These friendship lamps may seem like a bit of a gimmick, but if you’ve ever embarked on long-distance love, you know that any means of feeling closer when apart is totally welcomed. When one partner touches their in-sync lamp by hand, its corresponding lamp emits the same glow, regardless of where each person is located. I mean… that’s super cute, right?
Digital Countdown Timer
This may not be the gifting choice for the anxious at heart, but it does give you and your partner a visual reminder that there’s something to look forward to —the next time you get to see one another IRL. Having a countdown to get you excited about the next trip is a sweet way to add some mutual, healthy tension to keep the longing for one another on a positive note. Save five percent on this timer when you clip the coupon on the product page.
LED Ring Light with Stand and Phone Holder
This may seem like a random choice, but clearly, when you’re in an LDR, video chat is an absolute must. Unfortunately, your arm may start to ache after hours of holding your phone and the right angle, so investing (or gifting) your beaux with a ring-light-powered tripod stand is a serious game-changer that will improve your communication 100 percent.
Love Box Spinning Heart Messenger
This charming little love box takes texting with Bae to the next freaking level. Basically this “kinetic, modern take on the classic love note,” allows you and your partner to send texts using the corresponding app, which prompts the heart-adorned box to shake (see GIF above).
This article was originally published in January 2020.