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So many people think sex toys are only good for masturbating—and I, for one, feel bad for these people! There are so many great sex positions with sex toys that couples rarely explore, and it’s about darn time said positions get the hype they deserve. From the Best Seat In The House to the Choose Your Own Adventure, there are tons of ways to incorporate sex toys like vibrators and strap-ons into your next love-making sesh, and I’ve rounded up seven guaranteed-to-please positions below, plus some toys you’ll definitely want to Add To Cart before your next booty call.
Some of you might be wondering, why would anyone want to use a sex toy during intercourse? Isn’t the point of sex to connect with your real-life partner? Of course it is—but sex toys don’t necessarily diminish that connection; in fact, they can even enhance it. Finding new ways to pleasure one another and giving your sex life a much-needed refresh can work wonders for a relationship, and bring a couple closer together. Don’t be shy about asking your partner to bring sex toys into the bedroom: once they see how much you’re enjoying them, they’ll be on board in a heartbeat.
As for which sex toys work best for couples, it largely depends on the position, which is why knowing your setup is key when selecting a toy before playtime. Read on for seven mega-sexy positions in which you and your partner can experiment with toys—spoiler alert, most are fun takes on classic positions, so you won’t feel like a fish out of water. Enjoy, you crazy kids!
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Doggy Treat is basically doggy style with a little added fun. In the classic doggy style position, have the penetrating partner reach around and pleasure the receiving partner with a toy, or let the receiving partner use a toy on themselves!
Stella Clitoral Stimulator
With penetration in process, a dildo may not be the ideal toy of choice in this scenario. Cue a mega-powerful clitoral stimulator! The Stella has a whopping ten vibration patterns and a flicking tongue that imitates oral sex for max stimulation.
Best Seat in the House
I mean, who doesn’t want the Best Seat In The House? Grab a very sturdy chair and have the penetrating partner sitting on bottom. As they enter the receiving partner from the seated position, either partner can use a sex toy to pleasure the partner on top.
Eve’s Big Love Rabbit
You can really use any sex toy in this position, but a classic rabbit vibrator like Eve’s Big Love Rabbit is an excellent choice, complete with two motors and seven vibration patterns to play with.
Looking for a great position to move to after some sweet spooning? Have the Big Spoon lift the Little Spoon’s leg in the air while Little Spoon uses a toy to pleasure themselves. Or, switch it up and have Little Spoon hold their legs open while Big Spoon comes in from behind with a vibrator! Rotate between both options for non-stop pleasure.
G Spot Stimulator
For this position, it’s best to choose a toy that can be used all over the body. Consider the Adorime G Spot Stimulator, which can be used to stimulate the clitoris, penis, nipples, anal region…wherever you so choose!
The Strap-On Squat
The Strap-On Squat is a great option for a couple where no partner has a penis or one in which the partner with a penis wants to be penetrated. Grab a fun strap-on dildo and take your lover from behind! Bonus points if you find a strap-on that vibrates for added pleasure.
Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On Vibrator
While a classic strap-on will get the job done, a vibrating strapless strap-on is definitely an option to consider, thanks to a dual-ended shape and rabbit ears that make it as pleasurable for the wearer as the receiver.
Think you can’t fool around with sex toys in a long-distance relationship? You’re so wrong! Video chat or sext your partner while masturbating, and use a sex toy that can be controlled with a remote or app. Have your partner control your toy and let them watch you enjoy using it.
OhMiBod Esca 2
The OhMiBod Esca 2 is a Bluetooth-powered, app-enabled must-have for all long-distance couples. It can be controlled from anywhere in the world, so your partner will never feel too far away.
Choose Your Own Adventure
If you and your partner have different preferences when it comes to sex toys, the Choose Your Own Adventure position is a perfect pick for foreplay. Each of you should come equipped with your favorite sex toy, which you’ll hand off to your boo. Then, move into the 69 position and pleasure one another with oral and the toy of your lover’s choice!
Ignite Vibrating Love Ring
If either partner has a penis, utilize a cock ring to amp up your oral! The Ignite Vibrating Love Ring has 20 different vibrating functions to choose from, so you’ll never get bored of the same old, same old.
Business & Pleasure
Why choose between business and pleasure, aka your lover and your vibrator? Have the penetrating partner lay down while the receiving partner sit on top facing them, using a vibrator or toy at the same time. The partner on top gets double the fun, while the penetrating partner gets a hell of a view.
Smart Wand 2 Massager
The bigger the vibrator, the better the view! Not to mention, the more turned-on you and your partner will be. For this position, the Smart Wand 2 Massager feels like the perfect pick, with ten titillating vibration patterns.
A version of this article previously appeared in January 2021.