Remember when the phrase “bridesmaid hair” brought to mind a pageant-themed updo, shellacked into submission, lest one hair fly out of place at any point during the 12-hour day? It’s time to put the Elnett down.
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These days, the best bridesmaid hairstyles are soft, romantic, and—wait for it—not always up. Ahead, 19 styles—including a couple that are not-so-traditional—for the wedding party to wear on the big day.