Are you looking for love in the Big Apple? Well, you’re not alone. In fact, a new survey conducted by Match.com reveals that 94 percent of their site users living in New York are looking to settle in the city. We all know Match.com, right? The online dating service where you pay $35 a month […]
We all remember that famous scene in “When Harry Met Sally,” right? No, not the Meg Ryan fake orgasm one, the scene where Harry (Billy Crystal) claims men and women can never be just friends. Meg is appalled, of course, although they are a prime example of the blurriness that can so often occur between […]
I would never claim to know the answer to such a question, but New York Times best-selling author Sherry Argov of Why Men Love B*tches has a theory, and women are buying into it. In fact, I got a first-hand testimonial. Well… overheard one. Last weekend my sister and I hopped the NJ Transit line […]
One night, after a lovely evening, my date and I retired home. As we snuggled on the couch chatting his phone rang. He looked at the screen, sent the call to voicemail and placed the phone face down on the table. I thought about asking who was calling at 2:00 a.m. but I resisted. Then […]
Making relationships work is a balance between self-preservation and relationship preservation. Although one cannot exist without the other, these two priorities can often be diametrically opposed. On one hand, the happier you are, the better partner you can be. Ignoring your personal needs will inevitably poison the relationship. Conversely, there is nothing wrong with compromise. […]
I recently sat at lunch with three middle aged men. Each single, moderately attractive, thousandaire successful with the most unreasonable standards for the opposite sex. As we all sit one of the men recognizes a woman at the next table who he knows professionally. She reminded me of Janeane Garofalo. They exchange niceties and each […]
Love is only complicated in films. I realized this last night, as I watched Pretty Woman, on television. We all know the tale of the hooker with the heart of gold who showed the most pessimistic bachelor exactly what he was missing-true love, right? In real life, love is simple. Relationships can be complicated because […]
“At this point in my life, it’s not about quantity, it’s about quality. The greatest reward for the least amount of effort.“ A quote from one of my dearest friends during a probe into the endlessly self serving male psyche. While, this little nugget of bachelor knowledge did make me laugh at the time, I’m […]
“I’m all strung up, my heart is fried, I just cant get you off my mind. Because your love, your love, your love, is my drug.” I never thought that a Ke$ha song could ever be the catalyst for an article, but the girl speaks the truth when it comes to dating and boys. Boys, […]
I’ll be the first to admit that there are a couple of double standards that I know aren’t necessarily fair, but I’d still like to keep around. For example, I preach a lot about how a guy should pay for the majority of things during a courtship. Sure, you can throw down for a couple […]
