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The Art of Mothering: Author Betsy Franco Talks Creativity And Her Famous Sons

The Art of Mothering: Author Betsy Franco Talks Creativity And Her Famous Sons

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    Betsy Franco shares a snippet of her personal and professional life. "No way did I envision doing the things I’m doing now," she tells us. "I don’t think that far ahead -- I just seize opportunities."

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    On working alongside her son James Franco on the soap opera, General Hospital: "That was a real trip because it was like a parallel universe. He was Franco and I was his mother and he was a murderer and I was a crazy. I never felt that way when acting before – it was really freaky at first.  I learned so much just acting with [James]. He was just SO committed."

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    Betsy and James bring on the drama during a scene on ABC's General Hospital.

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    Franco's YA novel, Metamorphosis Junior Year turned into a family collaboration. Son Tom provided the illustrations for both the book and the eventual play, youngest son Dave was there for revisions and to offer feedback, while both Dave and James narrate the audio version. (James also later directed a documentary about the play as well.)

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    Betsy and her husband Doug were both artists who studied together at Stanford University. Sadly, Doug passed away last fall after a wide and varied career as a businessman and a Silicon Valley entrepreneur.

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    On her own career and being an example to her sons growing up: "It didn’t hurt for them to see that I was willing to do what it took. My motto has always been 'make it work'."

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    Franco's parenting philosophy towards her own children growing up is a sentiment she's carried over into her motivational speaking engagements for high school teens interested in pursuing a career in the creative arts.  "If someone makes some bad choices, you’re going to limit your options. If you really want to do what you say you want to do, this will have an effect on that."

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    What's the one thing Franco feels she and her entire family share? "I don’t think any of us see the work we do as separate. Everything is a challenge, but in a good way."

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    On acting with her famous family: "[The boys] got me into acting by watching them grow so much from it. They got to me branch out and they gave me the courage to move beyond one genre."

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In our hallowed editorial offices, there’s an ongoing conversation that goes a little something like this: “Hey, did you hear what James Franco is doing now?” This is often followed by a careless shrug and a “What hasn’t he done?” While we’ve come to expect the award-winning actor and his equally-talented brothers to challenge the the notion of a linear career path, the roots of their creativity is rarely touched upon. In reality, their mother Betsy Franco is the catalyst for this — and much more.

A successful writer and artist in her own right, Franco’s own zeal for the arts began during her childhood in Ohio (her father was an oral surgeon and an artist, while her mother ran an art gallery). “Creativity was really emphasized in my home,” she recalls  “My parents encouraged it. It was one thing I felt comfortable with and didn’t feel pressured.”

Flash forward past a visual arts degree from Stanford, a happy marriage, a growing family and the complexities of balancing her role as a mother against her driving passion, and suddenly Franco found herself at a crossroads that would ultimately shape not only her future, but those of her children as well.

“Painting was my passion, but I needed to make money,” she explains with a chuckle. “Then I had James and [his brother] Tom, and those two were so mischievous and curious they had to be distracted while I was working or else and they probably would have eaten the paints!  They were my top priority, but as a practical person I knew I couldn’t exist without being creative.  That’s why educational publishing was so appealing and eventually gave way to my own writing projects.”

What started as a sensible plan to earn income for her family by working as a part-time writer eventually spurned over 80 YA and children’s books (including the highly-acclaimed Metamorphosis: Junior Year that was illustrated by her son Tom; sons James and Dave narrate the audio version) and ongoing speaking engagements at high schools around the country in which she extolls the value of embracing a career in the creative arts while at the same time developing an actionable framework to execute it.

“My goal is to help teens develop clarity and encourage them to look for opportunities,” Franco asserts rather emphatically. “You have to pay the rent, get a part-time job, but leave time for your art.”

This philosophy is something that carried over into her own family and readily explains the turns her sons have taken in front of and behind the camera, in literature, education, fashion, and yes, even technology (wherein Franco and her son Tom are now hard at work together on a new app).

“From the the day [James, Tom and Dave] were born they were creative curious and unusual. We encouraged it at home. I don’t think about failure and we didn’t talk about it.  The word ‘failure’ isn’t helpful in the realm of creativity. If I do something and it doesn’t work I use it later on.”

Not surprisingly, her most heartfelt choice was to invest not only in her own talents, but to foster her sons’ and eventually join forces with them on a number of projects including book collaborations, acting stints and an upcoming screenplay with son James. “I’ve done a quite a number of projects with my sons which I love doing. I love working with them,” she gushes with pride.  “I can’t stress how much I’ve learned from them.  When they were little and they saw me working as a writer, they saw the possibility in doing something creative and making a living from it.  It takes as much creativity to figure how to make a living as an artist as to be an artist in itself.”

From mother, to muse, to mentor and back again. Betsy Franco has never allowed herself to be pigeon-holed, which seems to be the unspoken mantra of the entire Franco clan if their current professional trajectory is anything to attest to.

(Click through the slideshow above to see more intimate family photos and to learn more about Betsy’s work and her thoughts on working and raising her sons.)

 

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